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NOBODY LIKES BIMBO’S THESE DAYS

 

Hold on a minute! I’m I the only one who finds these statements very annoying – “I don’t have to bother myself I’ll get married to a rich man anyway, abeg let me finish school I won’t even worry myself I must marry a wealthy man, ah! tha wan na sure thing I must marry rich man o”. I know there are still folks out there who find them annoying also.

Okay before we go further, lets analyze these statements. Obviously, they are mostly made by lazy girls/ladies. Unapologetic I say yes! They are made by THE LAZY ONES. Now, don’t get this twisted, having a wealthy man as your husband isn’t a taboo. As a matter of fact, 101% of girls, ladies, women and mothers would love and welcome the idea with arms opened wide, myself inclusive J (I mean why not). But hey, come on, let’s be honest it’s clear what I’m trying to say here and that’s why I said no one digs bimbo’s these days. Just in case you’re not sure whether you’re a bimbo or not, don’t go too far, you’ll find the answer beneath.

BIMBO –an attractive but unintelligent young woman. To make it a little simple, let’s bring it down to the modern day word –SLAY MAMAS. You see, there ain’t nothing wrong in looking good and attractive as a young woman but believe me there will be when you’ve got nothing to offer save that beautiful body. Those who we refer to as slay mamas for clarity are those young ladies who believe they have nothing to offer. They only care about good clothes, good shoes, makeup, material things and gadgets. They only give attention when money speaks. They are all about the looks and nothing about the books! They can otherwise be referred to as B.w.B –Beauty without Brains. They have no drive, vision, passion, dream or plan for life. They lack ambition to do anything big or even start anything small.

So, are you one of them? yes or no, that’s for you to decide.

You see if you get angry after reading this, permit me to tell you ever so boldly that without any reservation you’re a Bimbo. Funny thing is, it’s not about going to school or being educated because and you may have gone through the walls of an institution of learning and still be unintelligent. Note intelligence isn’t just about books. Please do not misunderstand me and even if you do, there’s no problem. This is not a podium to haul abuses at anybody neither is it an avenue for name calling. It is only a call for awakening.

 

Things you should know about the whole bimbo thing

If you’ve been very attentive and you’re thinking hey what’s so wrong if I am well, here’s what you should know and why you should not be one.

  1. You become a lumber

Truth is just the way we hope our partners to be very successful, they hope to marry someone who can help them manage their success. Men these days aren’t looking for wives who just eat, lavish and spend. They too want partners to help them build, create and innovate. When you can’t help fulfil any of these you become a lumber to him and everyone around you –a burden, a liability, ouch! So this is one reason you shouldn’t settle to be one.

  1. You lose respect

When you have nothing upstairs, you cannot speak up when others do because if you say something, it’ll be of no value (out of the abundance of the head/mind the mouth speaks). You cannot share ideas or even communicate properly because there won’t be any relevant and sufficient information you have to pass down to others, so imagine when you wish to express yourself in the audience of enlightened people and because of little or no knowledge you flop. That alone could cost you your respect especially where you’re a known figure of trending fashion styles, arrogant swagger and pride. Then again, you could picture a scenario where your husband’s family are all very well educated and you only know how to assist their son spend his money. I needn’t say your plight (we all know okra soup draws, nobody for my mouth you wan hear say e dey draw) lol.

  1. Et cetera et cetera

You may fill in the blank space, two words are enough for the wise *winks*

Finally, I’d love to say, we’re not here in this world for ourselves alone, while we’re busy doing what we do, there are people out there waiting for us to do something extra in an ordinary way or something extraordinary for them. We can’t do these things thinking of just ourselves. So please young ladies never settle at being superficial.

 

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